25 Misconceptions Men Commonly Have About Women That Simply Aren’t True
The internet can be a chaotic place, but every now and then, a question sparks genuinely thoughtful conversation. One Reddit user recently posed the question : “What’s an assumption about women that most men get wrong?” Thousands chimed in, and the responses were both enlightening and refreshingly honest.
We’ve rounded up some of the most eye-opening and relatable answers that just might bust a few myths.
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#1
That just because they’re friendly it doesn’t mean they want to bear your child.
#2
That expressing strong emotions means we’re now incapable of rational thought and should therefore be ignored. Yes, I’m crying. I’m crying because I’m upset, but I’ll still be able to set out for you the how, when, why, and what I’d appreciate moving forward.
With some men, it’s like they see tears and there’s a loud, authoritative voice that booms in their heads, “She’s emotional. Nothing she says makes sense from this moment on.” On the flip side, if we force down our feelings to speak calmly, those same men will also hear a voice saying, “Well, she doesn’t look all that bothered, so this probably doesn’t matter much.”.
#3
Basically anything a man in an online video is saying about women as a whole
He is not trying to help you get dates. He is trying to make you bitter and miserable so you keep failing, so you come back and give him views and/or money. Very few women want to be treated like a commodity or disrespected so stop listening to men telling you to disrespect women.
#4
That all women are the same. “Women want,” how about you talk to the woman you’re actually trying to pursue?
#5
That taking birth control is always a safe option for women.
It’s not! Birth control can have serious effects on our hormones. It can cause blood clots. IUD’s are painful to get put in and removed. Pills can lead to hormone withdrawals, causing major migraines and uncontrollable mood fluctuations.
There is a danger to birth control.
#6
That we’re hairless. Most, if not all, of us have hair. EVERYWHERE. Yes, hairy women exist. We’re not dirty, or single, or insane. We’re literally humans. I don’t understand how men pick on women for having peach fuzz, hair on their backs, hair on their buttocks, etc. Some men think women come as they’re shown in [adult media].
#7
When she comes fully waxed, lotioned up, in a matching bra/panty set, and they think they’re slick for charming her into hooking up.
Do you really think we go about our day to day lives like that. She came prepared. At that point, you didn’t f**k her, she f****d you.
#8
Not me with my bonfire sitting out alone in the backyard. Nothing like building a good a*s bonfire, it touches a primitive feeling.
#9
That certain things traditionally done by women are easier for us, like no it’s not easier for me to stay up all night with the baby, not easier for me to juggle work with taking care of kids.
#10
That dating is entertainment. It’s not. It’s a lot of work. And men aren’t competing with other men. They’re competing with the sense of peace and freedom women have when they’re not in a relationship. Unless you bring that peace, comfort and freedom to the table, she won’t stay. Doesn’t matter how good the [intercourse] is.
Edit- Wow… just wow. I gave a really simple answer on a very nuanced topic. And it 100% goes both ways. One person’s freedom is another person’s jail. I think most people just want peace, connection and kindness in their lives, however that looks for them. And honestly, I hope everyone finds it for themselves. The world could use some more joy and peace these days….
#11
That’s it’s ok to touch us for no reason. We never asked for your hand on our back yo.
#12
Men think women are as visual as them. We’re not.
I saw a video a while back that had a very stereotypical “cowboy” dancing with his lady, holding her tenderly, spinning her round gently, and looking so in love. Of course, the comment section was filled with women saying they wished they had a man like that, only for loads of men to upload videos as a response with them dressed as cowboys.
We didn’t like the video because the man was dressed like a cowboy. We liked the video because of how sweet and tender he was.
#13
That we all want kids.
#14
That when women say she’s a feminist = I hate men.
#15
That being harassed and catcalled are compliments.
#16
That they are almost a completely different species. Men and women are more alike than any side like to admit.
#17
That it’s our job to make their lives more comfortable.
#18
That we don’t enjoy things they like. I love Pokemon, Reading comics and watching anime.
#19
I wouldn’t say most men get this wrong, I think it’s more of an online issue, but I’ve seen this common idea online that assumes that all women have a strong support system/ don’t deal with loneliness in the way men do, which is not true. I do agree that the way social norms are in our society women are often (not always) better prepared to forge strong emotional bonds, but that doesn’t mean that everyone does, especially when mental illness comes into play.
#20
‘make beauty standards are so hard to meet!! you have to have a ripped body, full 6-pack, 4% body fat. that’s all they want.’
‘hey actually a LOT of women (me included) prefer a much more average physique. a ton more women than you would imagine are chubby chasers too.’
‘YOU’RE LYING GIRLS DONT LIKE DAD BODS’
the amount of times this happens.
#21
That the reason for dressing nice and wearing makeup is to make them more attractive to men.
#22
That women are not as sexual or as interested in [intercourse] as men are.
Most women pretend to be more vanilla than they actually are in order to avoid judgement, especially in some cultures or countries, but rest assured we can be just as filthy minded (if not worse) than men.
#23
That we don’t crave [intercourse] as much as they do. I’m 40 and ravenous. I see you in those gray sweats.
#24
That all women are gold diggers and just into material stuff and will cheat on you. There are women out there but there that do these things but there’s WAY more that don’t. You’re just not looking for the right woman.
#25
Pretty much any assumption that by nature of being specifically not male, we are intrinsically a particular way. We’re just people. We have all the same exact feelings, impulses, struggles, etc.
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